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We opened up our struggle, hoping that someone would stand with us—but no one did.

The auction and fundraiser are now closed, leaving us to face this fight alone.

It’s heartbreaking to realize that our family’s plea for justice wasn’t enough to move anyone to act

Our Story

Fighting for Justice and Custody in a System That’s Letting Us Down

We’re facing one of the hardest struggles of our lives—a fight for custody and financial stability, simply to be with our children. Trapped in a system that doesn’t seem fair, we’re pushing forward for justice not only for our family but for other fathers who deserve fair treatment as well. When my husband’s ex-wife’s partner initially left her, forcing her and the kids out of their home, we had a brief period of cooperation and stability. But after they reconciled and moved over 50 miles away to Bastrop—moving the kids across three different school districts in just two years—the situation changed entirely. The children’s routines were disrupted, they now face long, dangerous commutes, and relationships have grown tense. My husband’s ex-wife removed the children from their grandparents, cousins, and us, refusing to help with transportation. We now spend a full 24 hours on the road every month, navigating some of Texas’s deadliest highways (SH130 and FM969). The gas, tolls, and other expenses fall on us alone, all while my husband is unemployed. Even without a job, she’s still taking half of his unemployment benefits, all while she’s purchased a new house and two new vehicles. She refuses any attempt at cooperation—even if it means risking our kids’ safety. She won’t even consider safer travel times on these dangerous roads, where there have been numerous fatal accidents. At first, my husband and I were angry. The constant moves, her sudden uncooperative stance, combined with unemployment and fears of losing our home, left us feeling cornered. She’s clinging to an outdated decree from when she lived just down the street. We tried to reconcile, approaching her with understanding, despite her refusal to meet us halfway.

The Lawsuit

Just before a Christmas party in 2023, we were served with a lawsuit for unpaid child support, despite her receiving half of his unemployment benefits and knowing his struggles in a tough tech job market. This lawsuit included penalties that could lead to three years in jail among other punishments, draining us emotionally as we were unprepared for this legal accusation and unable to secure a defense until right before the court date. On the day of the hearing, my husband trusted the court to hear his side of the story and make a fair judgment that would prioritize the children’s welfare and consider both perspectives. Unfortunately, his hopes were dashed in a swift trial that focused solely on money, neglecting the children’s best interests and the truth.

Since then, we’ve lost our home and moved in with his parents—a place the children wish they could stay, just to see Grandma Bunny and Grandpa more often. Despite his exhaustive job search and evidence of an industry contraction, the court insists my husband is capable of earning the same income he did before, forcing him to owe just under $2,000 per month, plus health, dental, and vision insurance. He risks losing his license and faces potential jail time if payments aren’t made. Our goal isn’t just to raise funds for these obligations; we want to share the true story with the courts—of missed calls on the children’s birthdays, of her disregard for their safety—and seek an adjustment of custody. If we’re fortunate to have funds left after our legal efforts, we hope to create an organization supporting disenfranchised fathers like us, who find themselves with nowhere to turn. This effort would advocate for family law changes, focusing on what’s genuinely best for the children, rather than defaulting custody to one parent. This effort is our only hope of giving the children a stable, loving home—free from dramatic changes and instability—where they can enjoy dance class with their cousins and spend more time with the supportive family network we’ve relied on through these challenging times. This experience has positively transformed my husband; his once-loving heart has grown even in the face of adversity, and he now feels driven to help other fathers who face similar struggles. Together, we hope to extend a helping hand to estranged fathers in our communities who, like us, urgently need support.

The Art Auction

Fighting for a Cause

In alignment with our family-first values, our political art piece—depicting Trump raising a fist defiantly after a near-assassination attempt—symbolizes our fight to restore stability and our role in the children’s lives. We’re auctioning it here to help fund the legal assistance we need to reverse our current custody situation. Every bid or donation you make not only helps cover legal costs; it supports a movement.If this auction or GoFundMe exceeds our immediate needs, we will dedicate the additional funds to establishing an organization focused on fathers' rights—advocating for fair custody laws and a system that truly recognizes the critical role fathers play in their children's lives.

Why This Fight Matters

The children’s well-being should be the priority in any custody decision. By participating in the auction or by making a donation, you’re helping us get one step closer to reuniting our family while advocating for fair custody rights for all fathers. Join us in making a difference—one piece, one dollar, one fight at a time.